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TAMYKO: There were things that I was hoping that Bryant would share with me that he wouldn’t always share or just didn’t feel comfortable sharing or talking about at that time. I made a choice that, when Bryant did share things with me, that I was going to listen because it was important enough to him to share it that I made it important to me as well, even if it was something like you know, they learned how to clean their gun or something, whatever. I could care less about how you clean a firearm, although probably, if there is a zombie apocalypse, I would even know how to do that cause he’s always talking about it anyway. It is important to just if that’s what they wanna talk about to listen and then eventually, because they see that you care and that you are listening, perhaps they’ll open up a little bit more about those other things that are eating at them.